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Tino Masecchia's avatar

Wow, amazing honest detailed observations Coral. You pinned it so well. There is a lot in your letter. Not only on dating but also on cultural aspects. I lived most of my life in Canada and now retired in Italy and I can relate to all of that. Great job. Love your writing and analytical side. Must of all your upfront attitude. Looking forward reading more of you.

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Sarah May Grunwald's avatar

I work with a lot of study abroad students who of course meet boys when they are here and ask advise. Mine is always DON'T.

My life is here but I'd not repeat it if I was sent back in time. I would love to be able to move back to California but need healthcare.

I mean go on the streets in any town in Italy. Child abuse is socially acceptable, and maybe it isn't as bad as the older generations but Jesus h. Humiliation and physical abuse is totally normal here. So imagine how bad Italian adults you meet had it as children, but they absolutely refuse to confront it and place blame on their horrible mothers. And so, it comes out as bullying amongst male friends and meanness and frankly abuse in dating.

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